Human ability

You can only be liberated when you try to see reality and reflect on it. I am aware of the difficulties of known what is real and what you want it to be real. The vast majority of us live our life centered on wanting to make reality something else.
Do not get me wrong, don’t think I am promoting reality as a thing with a finite shape which cannot be changed, I am aware of the power of free will, the ability to shape our own reality, my point is accepting the limit of our ability. While it is normal to want your life to be in a certain way there are many factors which beyond our ability to control, do not feel lost and out of control when those things happen, this does not mean you are no in control of your life, infact you are, what you are not in control of is reality.

Reality consist of you, me, them, others, the table and, your life is defined based on your interaction of you with reality. You can control your interaction, however you can never predict the reality and the impact of your interaction with it, respect it and move on.

Do not see life as a battle and say ‘I accept defeat’, see life as life and realize you are a human with limited ability, respect your limit and grow with it.